sometimes, even a happy family can be shattered into pieces which cannot be joined together again. its always the same story, either having extra marital affair, finances struggle or no-more-feelings. but couples with children tend to stay together for the sake of the kids, thinking that by putting their own happiness at stake can bring happiness to the kids. the most common error would be a third party, and it is always the men who will fall to the serpent. they tend to seek sex or fresh company and even matures at the age of 40 and above, they are out seeking pleasure and forsaking their family and responsibility which they hold. i've witnessed families crumbling to the irresponsible acts by the man and little would i expect that to happen to me. im very disappointed in him.. i tell myself today, i will never ever let the love of my life down, i will not shrink my responsibilities as a husband and father in future.

i've been talking to samuel ong these couple of nights.. on almost ANY topic. he's seriously a super nice chap to talk to, i think we are on the same sampan.. his sampan is trapped in the middle of the sea but he is able to see the shore soon.. however my sampan is still parked at the shore, waiting for the perfect tide. bro, thank you for your encouragements and tips uh :)